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Mike Leal

Due to the Covid-19 Pandemic, we have sadly had to make the decision that we will not be making our planned mission trip to Wales this year.  We are, however, in contact with our friends in Wales and at New Hope Baptist Church and have already met together with them to catch up and pray for one another.

We are keen to continue our connections with Wales this year despite the limitations and we would like to invite you to engage in the following ways:

  1. Pray for our Welsh partners: You can pray for the pastors, churches and communities.
  2. World Week: We will be featuring Wales in one of our slots during our World Week in May.
  • Pastor Ian Ross – Bryn Sion Church, Aberdare
  • Pastor John Hall – Bethel Baptist Church, Pontyclun
  • Pastor Jason Wilkins – Ebenezer Baptist Church, Abertillery
  • David Powell – High St Baptist, Merthyr Tydfil
  • Pastor Stephen Davies – Hills Community Church, Aberbargoed
  • Pastor Sammy Millar – Dowlais Elim Church, Dowlais
  • Pastor Dale Thomas – Hope Church, Aberdare
  • Pastor Andy Pitt & Pastor Mark Stone – Park Baptist Church, Merthyr Tydfil
  • Clive Harris (Steward) – Rhigos Rugby Club Rhigos
  • Pastor Fortunato Santos – Sardis Baptist Church, Resolven
  • David Chilcott – Tabernacle/Carmel, Troedyrhiw
  • David Williams – Rhiwderin Tabernacle, Newport
  • Pastor Stuart Wheatman – Valleys Family Church, Brynmawr
  • Pastor Luke Morgan – Gateway Church, Aberdare
  • Pastor Phillip Rees – Duckpool Baptist Church, Newport
  • Peter Lloyd – Peniel Pentecostal Church, Glyneath
  • Christine & Val Williams – New Beginnings Fellowship, Merthyr Tydfil
  • Clive Bryant – Bryngolwg Free Mission, Mountain Ash
  • Rev Stephen Barnes – St Mary’s Church, Aberfan
  • Wayne Evans – Church on the Rise, Ebbw Vale

Topics: Prayer, World Mission
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Nélia Leal

Some thought on how we can continue to pray into the Coronavirus Crisis from Nelia who is our Deacon for Prayer Ministry.

And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord’s people. Ephesians 6:18

Frontline: NHS, government, police and all the key workers

Those affected: The sick & bereaved. Businesses and individuals financially impacted

Behind the scenes: The homeless & vulnerable. Supporting churches, organisations and workers. Church leaders and volunteers working in different ways to reach people

Scientists: Those working towards a vaccine, treatment and different ways of testing

World: Countries where Covid-19 has caused the most deaths. That the virus will not take hold in third world countries where they lack good healthcare systems and infrastructure

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Annabel Fairfield

From what I am hearing, five days into an unplanned project to home school the nation, it seems to going better than anyone could have imagined, but there are many, very real, challenges as we walk into these uncharted waters.

Over this last week I have been recalling a time in our family’s life when we were in a totally new world, isolated from everyone we knew, living in an apartment that we later measured and discovered was only 75m square. We were together 24/7, and as parents we were fully responsible for the education of our 3 children, who at the time were 9, 11 and 13.

We were no experts then and are still not now, but as a family we still like each other and learnt a few things through our experience which may help you now.

I have wracked my brain for some things that helped us and which may help you. Take the ideas that you think could work for you and ignore the rest.

  1. Involve your children in decisions that affect them – you’re all in this together and their perspective can be helpful and is often insightful.
  2. Read, read, read. Read to your children, read with your children and have them read to you. Expand your reading your beyond your usual genres, borrow books from friends, read fiction and non-fiction, but read, read, read.
  3. Be the most encouraging person in your child’s life. Let’s face it, their world has just got really small too. They aren’t seeing their friends, many things are uncertain, they may be grieving the things that they have lost, and your words of encouragement are needed more than ever.
  4. Don’t try to be your child/teen’s teacher. They have teachers and they don’t need an extra one who lives with them! Instead be the ones who provide the general structure to the day (start time, drink and snack at break, lunch, after school cuppa etc) and let them grow into their new routines.
  5. If your child gets into something new at this time, encourage them go with it. They willl learn valuable skills as they research what they are interested in and are more likely to enjoy what they are learning. In those days for us it was British History, and today the same child is learning to juggle.
  6. Work with them to make a timetable which fits their school schedule and don’t micro-manage their work load. We discovered that even quite small children can manage their own school work with guidance, and most become very effective self-learners within a matter of weeks. This won’t happen overnight, but keeping our mouths shut whilst they work it out will pay dividends for years and years to come.
  7. You are all at home now, therefore you are all making more mess, using the toilet more and eating all your meals at home. That is a LOT of clearing and cleaning. Sharing out meal preparation, cleaning and tidying is a must for harmonious living in lock-down. There are lots of ways to do this; tidy up time every day – all hands on deck with loud music is one way, making a rota is another. Decide together and encourage each other to stick it. Review it in a week and make adjustments according to what works for your family, but don’t leave it to one person – that’s just not kind.
  8. Respect the needs of your child for alone time or time away from the rest of the family. Introverts find it hard to be around people all the time and need time to re-charge. We often found our introvert in the wardrobe playing with her playmobil and knew we needed to leave her there until she was ready to come out! Our son said 2 hour bike rides were the key to his sanity.
  9. Make meal times an occasion, especially the main meal of the day. Take your time, play board games or card games at the table afterwards – you’ve got no-where else to go and this is precious family time that we can endure or enjoy, the choice is all ours.
  10. Good enough IS good enough. Be kind to yourself

None of this is rocket science, and it is certainly not intended to be expert parenting guidance, but hopefully there is something here from our experience of home school life that will help you in this time (I bet you never thought you would have a ‘home school life’ – crazy days!).

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Sarah Ison

United International Cafe

By Sarah Ison

United Cafe meets in the church hall every Wednesday throughout the year. Our mission is to welcome international students into a Jesus-centred community where they hear of and encounter the love of God.

Every year we welcome hundreds of language school students, au pairs and other international visitors, providing a friendly and relaxed environment for them to make friends, practice their speaking skills and to meet English people (us – the team!).  It is an honour to serve in this way, perhaps being the first Christians some students have encountered, and to share the Good News of Jesus through the welcome talks, church building tour, presentations, and invitations to Alpha.

“We are privileged to be able to freely share our faith with people from Islamic and other religious backgrounds”

United is more than a social night, it is an opportunity to get alongside internationals who are often at a junction in their lives between study and work, or exploring what direction their life may go in.  We are privileged to be able to freely share our faith with people from Islamic and other religious backgrounds and countries where their likelihood of meeting Christians may be very limited or unlikely.

Many regular students who come every week are from Islamic countries; they choose to come to a welcoming Christian environment, where they can socialise as well as hear about the Good News in a non confrontational and natural way through friendship evangelism and informal presentations and discussions.

“You never know who you are going to meet”

Team members enjoy being part of United for various reasons, one member said they love coming because they never know who they are going to meet and to have this mission field on our doorstep is such a great opportunity to practice open ended conversations and friendship.  Strong and lasting friendships have been made, as well as fleeting ones when we sometimes wonder what happened to that student from Kuwait, for example, and if we remember them perhaps they also remember their time with us!

We never cease to be amazed who God brings along to United, especially those from Turkey and the Middle East and it is such a good opportunity to get to know these young people and hear something of their lives and share something of ours with them.   It has been wonderful welcoming students again who have returned to the city a few years on and return to United to say hi!  It is such an encouragement to the team that we see students come week after week, inviting their friends, and even some who come along after a long day at work to keep in touch with everyone.

“We give all departing students a personally inscribed New Testament”

It is humbling to see how genuinely appreciative students have been on their last night with us before returning home, thanking the team for the Cafe and accepting the personally inscribed New Testament that we give to all departing students.  It is energising and encouraging to have conversations with people from around the world, using opportunities to share God’s love with the nations without leaving our city.

The team welcomes you to see United in action for yourself and explore whether it may be somewhere you may wish to serve on a regular basis (e.g. weekly/fortnightly/monthly) through coming on a Wednesday evening.

We also welcome additional regular support through prayer or by providing homemade cake for Wednesdays!

Please contact the church office or see Tim or Sarah Ison if you want to know more, or are interested in coming along.

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Neil Avard

CAP Testimony

By Neil Avard

Hello, I’m Neil Avard, one of our CAP Debt Coaches. The following is a testimony from one of our CAP clients who we have journeyed with. We’ve changed her name to provide her with a degree of anonymity:

Hi my name is Ruth.

I was brought up in Buckinghamshire, and in my teens started attending a Baptist church in Bedford where I was baptised aged 15. However, I stopped attending church aged 17, choosing instead to live as a Buddhist.

I moved to Brighton seven years ago, where I worked as an area manager for a large retail company.

Sadly due to long term medical issues I lost my well paid position and started to get into financial difficulties. The downward spiral of debt had massive implications on my mental health, and the more I got into debt the more I couldn’t cope.

Eventually I became very desperate with my financial situation and decided I could no longer juggle my debts, as even the minimal payments became crippling. It dawned on me that I may never be out of debt and I sought professional help.

So I did the modern thing and Googled ‘Money Advice’. I came across an organisation called Step for Change, who gave me some very brief telephone advice and told me to sort the rest out myself, which at that time I felt unable to do.

I then looked a little further and finally had the courage to ring the CAP Freephone number. Little did I know that my life was about to change beyond anything that I could imagine.

On the first home visit of many, I met Neil and his lovely mum, Pat, who set me at ease, talked me through my debts, gave me hope, and eased my fear.

Over the following several months I was really touched by offers of prayer and gifts of food. CAP took the weight and worries off my shoulders. My regular hospital visits to London offset the budget they prepared for me so CAP helped further by sending me supermarket vouchers.

At one of my lowest points in December I had a beautiful Christmas hamper delivered, which was a really wonderful surprise.

Recently I had a birthday, and CAP were the first to send me a birthday card! I couldn’t believe that somebody had taken the effort to find out my birthday. It made feel so loved and valued.

During my time with CAP, and the meetings with Neil and Pat, I began to gain a growing interest in returning to be part of a church family. I found a new desire to surround myself with Christians, so I could experience more about the love of God. I was encouraged to join an Alpha Course at my local church, St Peters, and I started attending the weekly sessions.

From there I started attending Church services, and I was amazed at their passion for serving the poor, hungry, and vulnerable.

On February 11th this year at 10.29 AM I was officially declared ‘Debt Free’. My self-belief, self-esteem and confidence is BACK! My struggle with anxiety has greatly improved, I feel free again, and able now to help others as they have helped me. (Yes I still have my bad days but it’s a reminder I need God’s grace, as I can’t solve my problems alone).

Recently I have joined a Home Group and whilst studying I realized that even I can be of service to God. At Easter I became part of the welcome team, and will soon be helping at the Women’s Haven.

My faith and the support from CAP, Holland Road, and St Peters helped me through the darkness and reminded me that I can live in hope for the future. God is definitely at work through CAP. They leave a lasting impression and reminded me again of the Love of God which we all know is priceless.

I now look forward with hope. This is the beginning of my new life as an active Christian who is debt free and living in Christ.

Thank you for listening.

Ruth.

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Rosie Dracott

Having children is one of the most rewarding, and yet one of the most challenging and demanding, things we can do with our lives. When there are toddlers or teenagers around, both seeking independence in different ways, it can feel like there is a lot of conflict and misunderstanding between us and our children. Can parents of teenagers really know what’s going on for them, or what it’s like to be a teenager today?

I asked some teenagers, from a variety of family backgrounds, 2 questions and these are their responses.

What’s it like being a teenager in 2015?

It’s confusing – sometimes people treat me like I’m a child and sometimes they expect me to behave like an adult. But I don’t feel like a child and I don’t feel like an adult – I don’t know what I am.

There’s always a secret to keep.

There’s always pressure to do really well in exams, and that being the only way you can go.

It feels like I’m never good enough.

No-one takes me seriously.

I feel different.

Everyone expects you to be grumpy because you’re a teenager.

Some people can be quite patronising.

If you do something good in the community people think you’re being paid or forced to do it – not that you are just being kind.

It’s tiring.

It’s better than it was in the olden days because we have more technology.

There’s always a fear of missing out on what’s happening – that’s why we need to keep checking social media – to make sure we don’t miss anything.

I struggle with comparison.

 

What do you as a teenager need from your parents?

Money, food and shelter. (Most frequent answer)

Honesty.

To listen to me. My mum never listens – she makes her mind up about something before I’ve said anything.

I want them to back off sometimes but still be there if I need them.

I need them to care but not interfere.

They need to lighten up a bit.

Let me be me.

To trust me.

To accept what I want to choose to do.

I need them to talk to if things go wrong.

I just want them to stop arguing and get on better with each other.

You can see more about the activities we offer for young people here.

Topics: Parenting Support
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Sue Stone

CAP Christmas Update

By Sue Stone

Did you know that every 20 minutes a property is repossessed?

Today there are people in our city whose lives are being devastated as a result of debt – often leaving them struggling to feed their families, feeling suicidal, depressed and alone.

This year our CAP (Christians Against Poverty) team have seen all of the above. We currently have over 50 clients who we are helping on their journey out of debt, and this year we have shared the joy of becoming debt-free with 7 of our clients. We have a great opportunity to show God’s love, invite them to Alpha, special services, or clubs and meetings run at church.

We have also run 6 CAP Money courses this year for students and adults – these teach basic budgeting and money management skills that enable people to budget, spend and save better. They have also been fun!

I would like to thank everyone at Holland Road Baptist Church for being such a generous church. Our clients loved the hampers the church provided last year, and they were so touched by the Easter eggs given. The food donated in our CAP box (at the connections point) has literally been a life saver as so many of our clients have desperately needed emergency food. Thank you for all your gifts of money to the B.L.T Trust that allow us to buy bus tickets, fresh food, send out birthday cards, and many other things that show God’s love to our clients.

Also thanks to everyone who volunteers to come out with us on visits, help with our Drop In sessions on Thursdays, hand out leaflets, make up hampers, and many other things that help Brighton and Hove CAP Centre reach those in need.

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David Treneer

This past year, the movement of refugees has often been in the news, whether because of the many lives of migrants lost on boats sinking in the Mediterranean, the debates in Europe about numbers of refugees, or the fears following the terrible Paris attacks.

The Christmas story is full of the movement of people, sometimes greeted with rejection, sometimes with compassion, sometimes with suspicion and fear. In the background wicked forces are at work, such as King Herod killing many children in Bethlehem as he seeks to destroy Jesus. And so Mary, Joseph, and Jesus flee as refugees to Egypt.

But the greatest movement of the Christmas Story is that of God himself, who left heaven to come into our world as a baby, in the person of Jesus Christ. Referring to Jesus’ birth, the angel said to Joseph,”they will call him Immanuel, which means God with us” (Matt 1:23). So God comes into our world, into our darkness – to bring us His light, to give us hope, peace and joy, all of which are found in him.

But this Christmas each of us has to decide how to respond as God, in Christ, moves towards us. Will we treat him with indifference, have no room for him in our busy lives? Will we respond like Herod, fearful that He poses a threat to our way of life. Or will we welcome Him, even worship Him as the Wise Men and the Shepherds did.

It is fitting that at Christmas we make time not only to buy and give gifts, and to celebrate and have Christmas parties, but to also make time to welcome and worship Christ. You can do that quietly on your own at any point, but our Candlelight Carol services (at 6:30pm on 13th and 20th December), Kids’ Carol service (12th December at 3:30pm), and our Christmas morning Service (10:30am Christmas day) are great times to do that with others.  You are welcome to join us at any or all of these times.

Christ says that when we welcome others – neighbours, refugees, or those in need, it is as if we are welcoming Him. So at this Christmas time, particularly look out for your neighbours, for those who may be isolated or new to the area, and for those in need. As a church, one of the ways we do that is by joining with many other churches in the city to put on a night shelter for the homeless in Brighton through the winter months. If you would like to join us in welcoming and serving the homeless, Holland Road Baptist Church’s part will be on Sunday nights from the end of January to March. Note: applications to take part are now closed.

If you are reading this while waiting for one of our carol services to start, thanks for coming to celebrate with us. Wherever you are reading this, I pray that you may know God’s blessing, peace and presence this Christmas, and as we start a new Year.

Happy Christmas.

God bless.

David.

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Jenny Brown

We watch the news we can often feel useless. But, what can we do to influence the situation for good? Surely we must be compelled to pray for those in positions of power around the world. But does it stop there? Do you ever wonder how things might be different if those people had encountered the love of Jesus?

Amazingly, one in ten current world leaders studied at a UK university, including the presidents of Iran and Syria. I wonder whether they had any contact with the UK church, and what was their experience of Christians? Of course, it’s not just future heads of state that come here to study. Others in future positions of national influence are currently students: lawyers, teachers, politicians, civil servants, doctors, business chiefs. And as well as attending university, thousands also come here to study English, maybe even just for a few weeks or months.

These are the people that the United team are seeking to welcome. Through the café every Wednesday evening we want to provide a place that can be ‘home’ for international students whilst they are here in Brighton & Hove. A place to relax, to make and meet friends, to chat, ask questions, and share life. We welcome students from all over the world to share in our extended family, providing them with an opportunity to hear of Jesus and to encounter the love of God. As we talk, some express an interest to know more. Some may come to a Sunday service or to Alpha, or may simply meet one-to-one over coffee with a team member. Whatever their interest, we want to serve all the students by giving simple hospitality and seeking to reflect the love of God to them.

Living in a foreign country shapes a person, especially as a student. Their experiences here could help influence not only their own lives, but, through them, the lives of thousands of others, and even national policies. Whether they come to know Jesus for themselves, or simply leave with a more positive view of Jesus and His followers, Wednesday night in the back room of Holland Road Baptist Church could be shaping the world of tomorrow….

We trust you are praying as you listen to the news – keep doing that!

But if you’d like to do more, please get in touch with us. Perhaps you could:

  • Bake some cakes or cookies once a month – or just occasionally.
  • Host a student for Sunday lunch – regularly or as a one-off.
  • Be part of a new prayer team committed to pray for the students (you could do this from home).
  • Join the café team.

We’d love to hear from you! Please get in touch via the United web page, or chat to Tim Ison or Jenny Brown.

Topics: Students, World Mission
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